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A Testament to a City Lost and a Time Erased: A Syrian Woman Remembers the Jerusalem of Her Childhood

Cover of book My Life in Jerusalem by Seham Obegi

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Introduction

This wonderfully engaging memoir covers the author’s childhood in Jerusalem during the final seven years of the Colonial British Mandate. It offers a fairly detailed description of a child’s life during that period, one occupied by school and by social activities available to Jerusalemites but also, and perhaps equally, by an undertone of political tension and unrest that became especially pronounced in late 1947, when the British government announced its intention to end its Colonial Mandate on May 15, 1948.

Seham Mudarri Obegi, the author, was six years old when her Syrian parents decided to move their family to Jerusalem in 1941. Writing her memoir in 2004 and 2005 from her retirement in the United States, she stated that her family moved to Jerusalem “to be part of a well-educated and vibrant society, to gain access to top educational institutions, and to build a stable and fulfilling life,” goals that they apparently did not feel could be achieved in Damascus.1 The family was a little unusual in that the mother was a successful and independent businesswoman, a milliner with a refined sense of fashion. They were French speaking; in fact, Seham’s first language until the age of four was French, and when she moved to Jerusalem, she knew little Arabic. She makes an interesting observation about the difference in the mandate systems in Palestine and Syria: in Syria, many Frenchmen had married Syrian women and lived in their communities, whereas British nationals in Jerusalem tended to segregate themselves from the local population.

During those years, the Syrian community in Palestine did not consider themselves to be immigrants; they were simply moving from one part of Greater Syria to another. Armenians were regarded in the same way; the word “immigrant” was used to describe the European Jews who arrived in Palestine during the British Mandate years.2

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The Syrian community in Palestine did not consider themselves to be immigrants; they were simply moving from one part of Greater Syria to another.

The Syrian community was large enough that it created an association to handle matters pertaining to the community; they did not want their issues to come to the attention of the British Mandate authorities. People traveled easily between Palestine, Syria, and Lebanon. In fact, Seham’s parents opened their hat store on Jaffa Road in Jerusalem years before they moved there; her parents took turns going to Jerusalem and staying for months at a time, supervising and growing their business until they were ready to uproot their family and put down roots in Jerusalem. The ease with which this could be done back then, and the impossibility of such an arrangement now, gives an indication of how much the region as a whole lost when Israel was established.

Princess Mary Street with the Jerusalem Automobile Company, Queen’s Hotel, and Rex Cinema in the background, ca. 1940–46

Princess Mary Street in Jerusalem with the Jerusalem Automobile Company, Queen’s Hotel, and the Rex Cinema in the background, ca. 1940–46

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Early Education

Seham was enrolled in a private French school, Saint Joseph de l’Apparition, located in what she describes as “the most modern part of the city”;3 a Google search identifies the location as Sheikh Jarrah, a predominately Palestinian neighborhood in the northern edge of today’s East Jerusalem. She recalls that the teaching staff were mostly Roman Catholic nuns from (Vichy) France, England, Hungary, Malta, Ireland, and Syria; she sensed that the nuns discriminated against Greek Orthodox students and regarded them as heretics. There were tensions among the staff because of their political allegiances, which surprised her; she expected their allegiances to be for the church, not their countries of origin. (Tensions between the British and French nuns eased when Charles de Gaulle assumed the leadership of France.) As described, one could conclude that the French nuns share the bigotry of their colonial home country: they showed no appreciation for the Arabic language or Arab culture, the geography of France was studied in minute detail (but not the geography of the Arab world), and in history classes, they took pride in recounting episodes in which the French defeated Arab armies.

Seham was fortunate to be taught Arabic by a Palestinian nun who loved her language and taught it with devotion. She went to school with the daughters of Musa Alami, Henry Cattan, Fuad Saba, and other prominent Jerusalemites.

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Saint Joseph de l’Apparition on the Street of Prophets, Jerusalem

Saint Joseph de l’Apparition on the Street of Prophets, Jerusalem

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She watched the nuns perform an “exorcism” of a student who she realized in later years was probably mentally challenged.4

Jerusalem in the 1940s was a vibrant, multicultural city:

My schoolmates were some of the most diversified groups I have lived and connected with in my life. Yet strangely enough we never felt foreign to each other. On the contrary, each one of them added to the groups a skill he/she had acquired through their personal background. Many of them came from interfaith and interethnic marriages, which made them more open to other cultures.5

It was also a city swimming in religion, Seham observes. Religion was unavoidable. Seasonal tourists swarmed the city, and they could be eccentric. The priests were competitive in their devotion (with Armenian priests being the most aggressive, in her view). In fact, her description of Christian sectarian hostility makes one appreciate the level-headedness demonstrated by Christians in the seventh century, who settled the potential flashpoint among sects by giving the key to the Church of the Holy Sepulchre in Jerusalem’s Old City to a Muslim family, an arrangement that has worked amicably ever since.

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Procession on the parvis of the Church of the Holy Sepulchre, Jerusalem 2013

Procession on the parvis of the Church of the Holy Sepulchre headed by guards in Ottoman attire, Old City, Jerusalem, 2013

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Life in Jerusalem during World War II

Seham recalled that Jerusalemites relied on buses for their transportation (unlike the horse-drawn carriages of her native Syria). At night, they observed blackouts to avoid Axis bombing. Food was rationed during 1941. Bakeries were closed altogether. Many foods disappeared from Palestinian households during the war years; according to Seham, potatoes were not available at all until 1945. For the British authorities, the priority was feeding their soldiers. Seham’s family was able to eat chicken and eggs from time to time because they had good relationships with Bedouin encampments, who provided them with these hard-to-find items.

A street in New Jerusalem with cars in the background ca. 1940–46

A street in Jerusalem’s New City, outside the ancient walls, ca. 1940–46

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Life was difficult in some ways, but satisfying in others. During those years, people were in the habit of going on picnics on their day off from work; with their family members or groups of friends, they spent hours outdoors. Picnics were a democratic form of entertainment, enjoyed by rich and poor alike.

Friends of Seham’s family, conscious of her father’s interest in water sources, encouraged them to visit Battir, famous for its ancient stone terraced farmlands (now on the UNESCO list of endangered World Heritage Sites) and a sweet water source, and Beit Safafa, home of sweet peas. Being in nature had a way of rejuvenating spirits and reinforcing connections with one’s surroundings.

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Battir village with buildings, hills, and trees, West Bank, Palestine, 2023

Battir village, Bethlehem, West Bank, Palestine 2023

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‘Ayn Karim, a wealthy area in the Jerusalem district, depopulated in 1948

‘Ayn Karim, a wealthy area in the Jerusalem district, depopulated in 1948

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Palestine Remembered

Jerusalem’s Cultural Life

Seham’s recollections of Jerusalem’s cultural activities are consistent with other memoirs written about that period. She credits the Arab Orthodox Club and the YMCA for the stimulating cultural life enjoyed by Jerusalem’s middle class during the 1940s.

Reflecting on that period more than half a century later, she described the Arab Orthodox Club as a “prominent lifeline” serving a city, Jerusalem, that she compares at that time to “a ship in the middle of a stormy ocean”; the club “educat[ed] and entertain[ed] for the ultimate goal of serving their patriotic duties.”6

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Sansour Building, ca. 1940; the sign for Café Europa hangs above the front door.

Sansour Building, ca. 1940; the sign for Café Europa hangs above the front door.

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The club (and the Y) offered the community opportunities to hear lectures by local intellectuals as well as intellectuals and prominent figures from the Arab world. Seham recalls hearing poet and philosopher Mikhail Naimy from Lebanon; musicians Sami al-Shawwa and Tawfiq Sabbagh and singer Layla Mourad from Syria; journalist Souhair al-Qalamawi and author Taha Hussein from Egypt; and Jerusalemite educator Khalil Sakakini. The club promoted political awareness and held lectures on such topics as the boycotting of Jewish goods. Jews had been limiting their commercial interactions with Palestinians all along, she believes. She cannot recall her mother having any Jewish customers, but she does remember that the only Jewish milliner tried to poach her mother’s employees. She remembers her father trying to buy a machine from a Jewish vendor, and the deal fell through when the vendor realized from the shipping address that his customer was an Arab. The only thing Jews were interested in buying was Arab property: “it was ‘land grab’ they were solely after.”7

The club had one of the best libraries in town, which Seham, a precocious reader, took full advantage of.

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Violence in the Waning Years of the British Mandate

The level of violence Seham’s family experienced is pretty remarkable. Before moving to Jerusalem, they had faced shelling by the French, who were targeting the Vichy government in Damascus; they left Damascus only to find that Hitler’s planes flew over Jerusalem. Blackouts and sirens were standard features of those years.

Jaffa Street, Jerusalem, early 1940s, people walking

Jaffa Street, early 1940s

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Palestine Remembered

Following World War II, Palestine became a war theater. Zionist militias were readying themselves to seize as much of Palestine as they could, and they began by targeting British Mandate authorities with acts of terrorism to encourage them to leave Palestine. Seham’s account presents a city on edge, never sure where the next explosion would erupt. She went to school in an armored bus and learned to live with her shutters closed all the time because a Jewish sniper had their house in his crosshairs and “shell[ed] us every night from his hiding window at Mamilla Pool’s side.”8

She went to school in an armored bus and learned to live with her shutters closed all the time because a Jewish sniper had their house in his crosshairs and “shell[ed] us every night . . .”

Her vivid account of ongoing terrorist attacks by Zionist militias helps readers understand the panic families must have experienced at the time. The bombing of the King David Hotel on July 22, 1946, rocked the city; the hotel had been the administrative center for the British Mandate authorities, and it employed many Palestinians in its offices. Ninety-one people were killed. For weeks after the bombing, Jerusalemites attended funerals. The hotel was a familiar landmark; it was opposite the YMCA, a destination for evening strollers, and seeing the bombed hotel day after day was a traumatizing experience.

Writing this memoir in the early 2000s, Seham compares the effect of the bombing on Jerusalemites with the bombing of the World Trade Center’s Twin Towers in New York on September 11, 2001.

Jerusalem’s King David Hotel; the YMCA is behind it, on the right.
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Palestine train station, Jaffa and Jerusalem line, sabotaged by Zionist terrorists, 1946

Palestine Railways H3 class 4-6-4T steam locomotive and freight train on the Jaffa and Jerusalem line, sabotaged by Zionist terrorists, 1946

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In December 1947, the Land Settlement Office was burned, which destroyed many property titles. Seham describes the event in these words:

The whole city of Jerusalem was awakened by a powerful, earthshaking explosion echoed through the night, jolting people from their sleep. My family, from our unusually close vantage point, had a direct view of the destruction. Despite our usual fear of the Mamilla sniper, we opened the main bedroom window and looked out. From the third floor, we saw the massive “Title Building” . . . engulfed in flames. It was a terrifying sight. The entire town was bathed in an eerie, glaring light, as if the sun itself had descended on the city.9

Seham recalled that her father said this incident was the beginning of the end. Jerusalemites were aware of Jewish efforts to buy Palestinian property (she claims that few actually sold), and he understood that landowners would be at a disadvantage if they couldn’t prove ownership.

Seham recalled that her father said this incident was the beginning of the end.

In early January 1948, the Haganah bombed the Semiramis Hotel in Jerusalem’s Qatamon neighborhood, killing 24 to 26 people. The Haganah claimed that the hotel was used by Palestinian fighters, but the dead included seven members of the Aboussouan family; Huberto Lorenzo, the son of the proprietor; and Spanish vice-consul Manuel Allende Salazar.10 She knew the hotel because her armored school bus stopped there daily to pick up students. “For a long time, this incident was mentioned with great sorrow everywhere we went.”11

The day after the hotel bombing was the Greek Orthodox Christmas, and on that day, a bus bombing at Jaffa Gate killed people Seham knew and loved—her neighbor and the mailman’s family. She recalls the Haganah targeting the means of transportation, which dispirited the Arab residents.

 

The Semiramis Hotel after the Haganah bombing of January 5, 1948

The Semiramis Hotel after the Haganah bombing of January 5, 1948

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Especially during the last year of the British Mandate, the adults’ conversations revolved around keeping their children safe: Should they stay, or would it be more prudent to leave for a few weeks? For many, including Seham’s father apparently, the massacre of Deir Yasin on April 9, 1947, decided the matter; he paid the rent for their home and business to cover the period during which he expected to be away, and he asked neighbors to keep an eye on their items until the family returned. A few weeks after arriving in Syria, Seham’s family learned that there would be no returning to Jerusalem; no Arab armies arrived to stop the Zionist militias, and a foreign state had seized control of much of the country.

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Life after Jerusalem

The precocious child who skipped grades in school in Jerusalem and who spent hours in libraries did not fare well in Syria. Unable to continue her education because of differences between the Jerusalem and Damascus school systems, Seham joined the workforce and put her language skills to use to support her family. It was only many years later, after she married and moved to California, that she was able to fulfill her dream of continuing her education; she enrolled at the University of California, Berkeley.

Years after that, she happened to open and look though a box of documents she had stored and not looked at again, moving the box from one home to another over many years. What she found prompted her to describe the Jerusalem of her childhood and a way of life that was satisfying and full, despite the lurking threats, a life that no longer existed.

One can imagine how deeply satisfying the process of writing must have been for Seham, allowing her to recapture the city she had left many decades earlier but about which she could still write “I . . . never felt that I left Jerusalem, or for that matter, that it ever left me.”12

“I . . . never felt that I left Jerusalem, or for that matter, that it ever left me.”

Seham Mudarri Obegi, author

Notes

1

Seham Mudarri Obegi, My Life in Jerusalem: A Memoir of Family, Displacement, and Reflection from 1941 to 1948 (self-pub., 2025), 360 (Kindle).

2

Page 247.

3

Page 90.

4

Page 150.

5

Page 97.

6

Page 147.

7

Page 138.

8

Page 217.

9

Page 309.

10

Wikipedia, s.v. “Semiramis Hotel Bombing,” last modified August 18, 2025, 20:59.

11

Page 308.

12

Page 22.

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